An Important Lesson I learned in Fez, Morocco
Thursday, April 27, 2017
This Spring break I had the opportunity to push myself and
expand on cultural horizons that I never dreamed possible. Before I begin
explaining about my adventures of Morocco I should probably give you guys a bit
of a pretext.
I’ll be honest, I
didn’t know much about Morocco before getting on my plane two weeks ago. In
fact, I was so uneducated on Morocco that I watched Sex and the City 2 in preparation
for my voyage only to realize that it wasn’t in fact in Morocco, but Abu Dabi.
Yep. That’s how little I knew about Morocco. Okay, I take that back. Sure, I
knew some stuff based off of what my students told me (many of whom are
originally from Morocco) including their love for couscous and knowing French,
but other than that I was completely clueless.
As our plane ride
descended my two friends and I began to get anxious to see the city. After all,
it was my first time in Africa and I was ready to cross another continent off
of my list. The first thing to know about Morocco is that they use Dirhams.
Right now, the exchange is 100 Dirhams = 10 euros. A pretty awesome deal if you
ask me. After what seemed to be the longest taxi ride of my life, we ended at the
edge of the city saying that we would be picked up at a restaurant named Timbuktu
(I’m sure it has a better reputation than the place itself). As we entered our way into the Medina, I felt
as if I was taken into a time warp and into another era. To my amazement people
were using donkeys and horses as modes of transportation about the streets.
Cats were seen picking up scraps on every windy street, and each little store
seemed to be selling fresh meat.
To say that I was unprepared for a culture shock on this
trip was probably an understatement. Culture shock’s aren’t always a bad thing.
If I think about how the Western media portrays Muslim countries (particularly
America), you almost always hear solely about the negatives. Staying a week in
Fez Morocco allowed for me to understand about a different culture and religion
that many aren’t able to experience. By the end of the trip, I found it
comforting to hear the call of prayer throughout the day (maybe not always the
one at 5 am but I digress). I am thankful for the freedom of religion in the
United States, but I actually found it beautiful that in this country- almost everyone
practiced the same religion. At no point did I feel suppressed as a woman
during my trip (sure there were cat calls, but there will be regardless of
where you go in the world). Instead, I felt enlightened thanks to a few friends
of mine that we befriended in Morocco.
Culturally,
Moroccans are known to be very giving, My friend at told this to us before
entering the plane, and this could be seen even before landing when my friend
was offered 10 euros to the woman sitting next to us on the plane offering to
pay for his lunch. We were dumbfounded that she would do this gesture of kindness
to a complete stranger. Fast forward to a couple days later. We are sitting at
the garden and find ourselves playing go-fish with some of the local teenagers
laughing for hours. Throughout the week the guys show us around Fez, introduced
us to their family and friends, and even opened their homes for us to share a family
meal. Each day I was more dumbfounded by myself for wondering how people could
be so nice. Maybe society had made me cold, but I always believed (until now)
that people had ulterior motives. I was humbly reminded that week in Fez, by
two guys in particular, that kindness still exists.
So even though I
might have touched Roman ruins, seen multiple villages, touched a donkey, and
seen at least five panoramic views nothing will compare to the memories I made
with my friends in Morocco. From the memories I made with my Airbnb hosts and his family members to countless number of times playing cards; Morocco will always have a special place in my heart. It’s a beautiful reminder, as my
journey of living abroad comes to an end shortly,that beauty can be found all
over the world in different ways, shapes, and forms.
Until next time,
The PrincessFusion
1 comments
Good stuff, have everything which one needs to learn about Morroco, Morroco is in my list to visit and this blog will help me for sure
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